For many of us, the term networking can sound like a dirty word.
As a working-class student entering higher education, it carried a strategic, self-serving connotation. It conjured images of professionally dressed, socially awkward people milling around in hotel conference rooms waiting eagerly to introduce themselves to some well-renowned scholar that might, by mere contact, succeed in elevating their own status. (“If I can just touch the hem of…”) It sounded like a word better suited to the local Chamber of Commerce or a business “after-hours” than academia. And, somewhat uncomfortably, it reminded me of the mysterious world of secret handshakes and old boy networks that I had always imagined gave middle-class students an upper hand in every social setting back home.
Not wanting to perpetuate or reproduce that dynamic, I often refused to participate in this so-called networking. And why not? If my work is good enough then it will speak for itself, right? Seven years later I am writing to advocate for networking. Well, at least a radical and redefined definition of it for those of us living and working on the margins of institutions.
A few years into my graduate school experience, I realized that while networking was often used for narrow self-serving reasons, for many others networking was a desperate response to the socially, intellectually, and politically isolating experience of academic life.
For people that arrive in graduate school straight out of undergrad the solitary character of academic life and the absence of any real personal support networks is often overwhelming. For those of us that are first generation college students, that transition can be even more difficult and alienating. In this context, the concept of networking can seem like one more foreign soulless professional practice that you are encouraged to master on your journey to become an “outstanding” and “respected” scholar of global acclaim. (i.e., The end goal of your life now that you have sold your soul to the gods of higher learning.)
Some people encouraged me to network unthinkingly; like they did it everyday. I wondered whether they were networking with me right now by telling me to network with others; and whether they networked with their family and friends when they left the office. Others begged me to network even though they acknowledged it would make me feel dirty. “It’s just the way things are, you know?” “It’s a business.” “You’ve gotta get your name out there.” “It’s sad, I know, but we need more people like you in academia.” In fact, the latter has become a kind of business lately as tenured radicals take pride in giving “hard advice” to idealistic young scholars trying to scrape one of the few remaining spots at the post-apocalyptic university. There’s a common thread in their pleas – “You are going to have to be willing to do a lot of things that make you feel dirty to be here.” I wonder whether anyone can keep doing some of those things and still have a sense of who they really are at the end of it all.
While I am still skeptical about a lot of this… Networking needs to be salvaged. And by networking, I mean investing conscious and deliberate energy in cultivating relationships with people that are politically, intellectually, culturally, or spiritually like-minded. If we are planning on sticking around on the margins of academia, or the church, or our unions, or any other institution…. then we are going to need networks to survive let alone have any influence on those institutions.
When you get to graduate school you don’t get training on how to do develop or maintain these kinds of networks. You probably figured, like me, that you were a pretty interesting person and that people would just naturally gravitate to you and that your life would be just as full and vibrant as it was before you arrived. False. Most of us have to go out of our way to actively construct new networks and contexts for these kinds of interactions. Graduate school will suck you into the isolation chamber where you will work alone at your desk for long periods of time. Sometimes you will find yourself studying at a coffee shop just to see other human beings and possibly speak to one for a few minutes during the day… but not too long or your chapter will not get finished. At times, Facebook will come to function as a real source of human interaction despite your best intentions. And when you finally come out of the isolation chamber you will find that most people are still in there and don’t have too much interest in leaving. We are all afraid that we won’t meet the deadline; that we won’t finish the chapter; that we won’t have the reading done on time for class.
Actively combatting that mindset and striking a balance between periods of necessary isolation and periods of intellectual and social engagement, solidarity, and rejuvenation is absolutely critical.
For those of us that choose to be on the margins for political reasons – because we are committed to making our work matter in the everyday struggles taking place in our communities – cultivating these networks is even more important. The hyper-competitive nature of graduate school is tough even at the best of times but, if you are making sacrifices to ensure that you work is accessible or that it is translated into action through local politics, social movements, etc., you are going to need people that reaffirm your sacrifice and help you draw boundaries. And, you are going to need people that remind you why what you are doing really matters. Plenty of people (mentioned above) are ready and waiting to tell you how to succeed professionally by sacrificing, at least symbolically, your political commitments and your sense of personal ethics. You are going to have to find other people to counter-balance that well-intentioned advice and help you know where to draw the lines. Staying in institutions is all about knowing where to draw the line. And yes, you are going to need someone to give you a hug when you have worked 80 hours that week trying to be excellent at both things and failing in the attempt.
Maybe you aren’t like me. Maybe you are superwoman and you don’t need this kind of support to survive the trials and tribulations of academic life. But if we are serious about transforming our institutions then we need each other. Our collective influence is greater than any individual contribution. Networking doesn’t have to be viewed as self-serving. Networking should be an act of solidarity. We support each other in transforming the spaces we occupy.
I became much more comfortable with the concept of networking once I realized that I was actively doing it in my political work all the time. Building alliances; contacting new people; having coffee with activists from other cities – none of these things seemed cynical when connected to an important political goal. I am convinced that this is part of what makes academic networking hard for scholar-activists. They often feel that their own careers and academic work are not worthy causes in comparison to the battles they are fighting out there everyday. Sometimes it feels selfish to talk about yourself. It seems kind of self-indulgent. And so you struggle to find your voice. Making that tie between the different aspects of your work – both the scholarly and activist components – will be an ongoing issue. But, if we are staying in these institutions for the foreseeable future then we need to make sure we are sane, energized, and collaborating with each other.
Please feel free to comment with your ideas on how to build stronger relationships and networks.

